Before You Decide: 8 Questions That Could Save You From a Wrong Turn

There are moments when you know, without a doubt, that you have heard from God. His voice becomes so clear that you recognize what He is asking of you, and you know that grace has either come upon you for what He has called you to do or that a season of grace for something has come to an end. Even when trusting Him is difficult, even when the decision requires you to step into uncertainty, you move anyway. You obey anyway. You trust anyway. Because when you truly know that God has spoken, you realize that faith is not always about understanding what comes next it is about trusting the One who spoke and having the courage to move when He says, “Go.”

But what if you are someone who is not sure you know the voice of God? What if you pray, but you are not certain whether what you are hearing is God, your own thoughts, your emotions, or simply what you want to be true? What happens when you have a decision to make and you want direction, but you do not know how to recognize His voice? Making a decision can feel like walking through a maze. We pray, we ask people we trust, we search the Scriptures, and, of course, we overthink. Then we pray again and again and sometimes we still feel like we are waiting for an answer that does not come. Sometimes we are not afraid of making a decision; we are afraid of making the wrong one. We wonder, “What if I move and God did not tell me to move? What if I stay and He was telling me to go?” But perhaps there are seasons when faith is not about receiving a perfectly clear answer; perhaps it is about trusting what God has already revealed while remaining humble enough to seek Him along the way.

Not every decision will come with a dramatic confirmation, and not every moment of silence means God has abandoned you. Sometimes faith means praying, seeking wisdom, examining your heart, making the most faithful decision you can with what you know, and trusting God with what you cannot see.But God has not left us without guidance. While the Bible does not give us a specific verse for every job offer, relationship, move, purchase, opportunity, or difficult conversation, it gives us principles that can help us develop wisdom. I recently came across these eight biblical tests for making decisions, and I found myself thinking about how relevant they are to the choices we all face in everyday life, especially for those of us who sometimes wonder, “Am I really making the right decision?” Before you decide, stop and ask these eight questions.

1. The Scriptural Test

All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness -2 Timothy 3:16

Before asking, “What do I feel?” ask, “What has God already said?” Scripture should be the starting point, not the final option we consult after making up our minds. If God's Word clearly addresses something, we do not need to negotiate with it because the alternative seems more convenient.

2. The Secrecy Test

The integrity of the upright shall guide them: but the perverseness of transgressors shall destroy them. -Proverbs 11:3

Some decisions look perfectly acceptable until we imagine them being brought into the light. Would you still make the same choice if your family, church community, closest friends, or the people you respect knew about it? Integrity asks whether our private choices can survive public scrutiny.

3. The Survey Test

Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity. -1 Timothy 4:12

Your decisions do not only affect you. Someone may be watching your life and learning from your choices. Ask yourself what kind of example your decision creates. If everyone around you followed your pattern, what kind of consequences would follow?

4. The Spiritual Test

For do I now persuade men, or God? or do I seek to please men? for if I yet pleased men, I should not be the servant of Christ. -Galatians 1:10

How much of your decision is driven by the fear of disappointing people? Sometimes we say yes because we want approval. Sometimes we say no because we fear rejection. Following God requires us to examine whose voice has the greatest influence over our choices.

5. The Stumbling Test

It is good neither to eat flesh, nor to drink wine, nor any thing whereby thy brother stumbleth, or is offended, or is made weak. -Romans 14:21

Christian freedom is never simply about asking, “Can I do this?” Love asks a bigger question: “How could this affect someone else?” A decision may be permissible for you while still requiring wisdom because of its potential impact on another person.

6. The Serenity Test

6 Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. 7 And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. -Philippians 4:6–7

Prayer changes the atmosphere in which we make decisions. Instead of allowing anxiety to become our decision-maker, bring the situation honestly before God. Peace does not mean every decision will feel easy, but prayer can help us move from panic to trust.

7. The Sanctification Test

The integrity of the upright shall guide them: but the perverseness of transgressors shall destroy them. -Proverbs 11:3

Not every good opportunity is a good opportunity for you. Ask whether this choice will help or hinder your spiritual growth. Will it draw you toward Christ, or slowly pull your attention, priorities, and character in another direction?

8. The Supreme Test

whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God. -1 Corinthians 10:31

When everything else has been considered, this question rises above them all. Is your ultimate goal simply to get what you want, protect your comfort, or impress others? Or can you honestly make this decision with the desire to honor God?


You Do Not Have to Live Afraid of Making Decisions

You may still have questions after working through these eight tests. You may not receive an immediate answer or a dramatic sign from heaven. That does not mean God has abandoned you. Wisdom often grows as we learn to submit our desires to Scripture, examine our motives, consider others, pray honestly, and pursue the character of Christ.

So before you make that next big decision, slow down. Ask the questions. Open God's Word. Pray. Examine your heart. Seek wise counsel. Then move forward in faith. You do not need to know everything about tomorrow to faithfully obey God today. The goal is not to make a perfect decision. The goal is to become the kind of person who makes decisions with God at the center.

Next
Next

Glory! When Heaven Comes Close